The Path to Peace

What This Journal Is

This isn’t a quick fix or a band-aid solution. It’s a comprehensive, biblical approach to heart transformation that addresses not just your behavior, but the heart attitudes and idols that drive that behavior. Over the next 90 days, you’ll move through six distinct stages:

• Days 1-15: Information Stage - Seeing your behavior and its impact clearly

• Days 16-30: Ownership Stage - Taking full responsibility without excuses

• Days 31-45: Transformation Stage - Experiencing gospel-powered heart change

• Days 46-60: Reformation Stage - Building sustainable patterns of change INTRODUCTION І iii

• Days 61-75: Heart Examination Stage - Identifying and destroying heart idols

• Days 76-90: Living as Men of Peace - Integrating transformation into daily life

  Each day includes Scripture, reflection, penetrating questions, a practical challenge, and a prayer focus. This isn’t just information—it’s transformation.

I have long hoped for a resource like this for men who abuse, and I’m grateful to see it come from my friend Chris Moles. His deep care for both the abused and the abuser is evident on every page, as he draws on decades of hands-on experience and offers concrete, practical pathways toward change. This work is a compelling reminder that real transformation happens in the details—and that no one is beyond the hope and grace of Jesus Christ.

 Jonathan D. Holmes, Executive Director, Fieldstone Counseling; Interim Executive Director, CCEF