RECOMMENDED RESOURCES FOR MEN

If you desire to take responsibility for and repent of the abusive patterns you’ve identified in yourself, we recommend you take advantage of the following resources:  

Men of Peace

·       Men of Peace Self-Paced Course

Free Men of Peace Worksheets

·       Telling the Truth to Yourself Worksheet

·       The Blame Game Worksheet

Books

·       From Pride to Humility: A Biblical Perspective by Stuart Scott

·       Self-Centered Spouse: Help for Chronically Broken Marriages by Brad Hambrick

·       The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for Men Who Use Control and Violence in the Home by Chris Moles

Free E-Books

·       When Power is Misused: Finding the True Strength of a Man by Jeff Olson

·       When Violence Comes Home: Help for Victims of Spouse Abuse by Tim Jackson and Jeff Olson

Blogs

·       Am I Abusive? by Chris Moles

·       Is PeaceWorks University for Abusive Men? by Chris Moles

·       The Blame Game by Chris Moles

·       Telling the Truth to Yourself by Chris Moles

·       Putting Off and Putting On by Chris Moles

·       Six (6) Attributes that Can Replace Abusive Actions by Chris Moles

Podcasts

·       The PeaceWorks Podcast

• Episode # 106 - Men of Peace "The Sin of Abuse"

• Episode #107 - Men of Peace "Stop hurting the Woman you Love" (Part One)

• Episode #108 - Men of Peace "Stop hurting the Woman you Love" (Part Two)

• Episode #109 - Men of Peace "Stop hurting the Woman you Love" (Part Three)

• Episode #114 - Men of Peace and Motivation

• Episode #118 - Men of Peace and Power

• Episode #122 - Embrace the Mind of Christ

• Episode #141 - BIP Programs and Intervention

• Episode #178 - Treatment Options for Abusers

• Episode #194 - An Inside Look at Men of Peace

• Episode #195 - Men of Peace Q&A

• Episode #196 – Men of Peace and Willingness

Local Resources

In addition to any counsel or coaching they may receive, we recommend abusive men take full responsibility for their change process and voluntarily admit themselves to a state-accredited Batterers Intervention and Prevention Program (BIPP). BIPP facilitators are well versed in the dynamics and impact of abuse, including emotional abuse. Men may do so by contacting county resources and/or their local county domestic abuse agency or shelter. To learn more about why we recommend BIPPs to men (even and especially in advance of their participation in the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course), please listen to Episode #141 of The PeaceWorks Podcast (Episode #141) -BIP Programs and Intervention.