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Episode #2: Can I Even Change?

Jul 7

Written By Chris Moles

Chris Moles

Episode #1: Welcome to The Men of Peace Podcast

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Men of Peace Self-Paced Course
FAQ Video Recordings

During the initial 2021 launch of the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course, Chris Moles recorded a series of FAQ videos on our PeaceWorks Facebook Page in which he answered questions concerning the course and its release.

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In VIDEO #1 Chris answers the following questions.

Can you speak to the scope and content of the course?
Can you talk about course outcomes and share testimonials of those it has helped and how/why it helped them?
How do you recommend course participants find quality accountability and shepherding team members?

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In VIDEO #2 Chris answers the following questions.

Is the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course available to the course participant permanently or just for a set amount of time?
Should I, as his wife, be the one to recommend the course to my abusive husband? I want him to do the hard work of change but he doesn't know this exists.
Could you talk about how a church elder or pastor can support an abused female church member?- specifically when she requested to meet the Pastor and Elder for the first time and report abuse or what may or may be abuse - those cases that fall in the grey area.
Can a man go through the course without a pastor/leader/counselor?
Will there be peer support groups for the men participating in the course?

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In VIDEO #3 Chris answers the following questions.

How can spouses prepare themselves for and practice good self-care during the time their husbands are going through the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course
Will an abusive man feel judged while going through the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course?
Is your ministry suitable for husbands on the spectrum?
Can you speak to the statistics you shared during your plenary session at the ACBC 2018 Annual Conference concerning abusive men and their religious affiliations and engagement. Why do you find this statistic to be meaningful? And how might a congregant proceed if they hear a pastor misinterpreting or misrepresenting statistics like this?

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In VIDEO #4 Chris answers the following questions.

Can the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course be helpful to someone who is already well into the process of repenting of abuse? Will it give him the foundation of what it means to fear God and how to treat his wife in a biblical way? Or is this only for men who are in the initial stages of repentance?
Can the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course help my husband who doesn't believe he is abusive?
What are your recommendations for the “team” aspect during the program and what are the team's responsibilities?
If a man who is truly wanting to change, admitting he has a problem. Say, he comes to Christ for salvation. Can this course be used as part of his discipleship process to know more about Jesus Himself, who he is to be in Christ, and what the domestic abuse has done to his family, himself, and how the changing process works?
Does the program recommend any particular books for the men or team to read?

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In VIDEO #5 Chris answers the following questions.

You said that men should be responsible for establishing their own shepherding teams. Do you see a difficulty for men to not only try to help themselves but reach out to build a team from scratch?
Does the spouse have any initial input as to what they have been experiencing with the abuser?
If the spouse has a current counselor, would it be helpful or hurtful to have that therapist act as the advocate for the abused during this process?
How do I help my pastor understand biblical support of divorce for emotional/non-violent abuse? He wants chapter/verse.
How much time each week will be required for the men to complete the course?
How can shepherding team members interact with the course content alongside the course participant?
Can you share more about Men of Peace and about how you got involved in this kind of ministry?

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In VIDEO #6 Chris answers the following questions.

Do we have to purchase the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course today? I want my husband to go through the course but he's not ready to accept responsibility and I'm feeling the pressure of time.
I am a survivor that wants to understand the process of change for abusive men. Can I purchase the course for my own learning?
Do men have to have their Shepherding Teams already established in order to purchase the course?
Should couples (an abusive man and his spouse) go through the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course together?

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In VIDEO #7 Chris answers the following questions.

My wife thinks I'm abusive (and I genuinely want to understand why) but I feel like if I agree to take this course then I'm agreeing with her that I'm abusive, and I'm not convinced that's actually the case. What would you recommend?
Is this course for a man who is aware he has been abusive but his wife has already chosen to separate or divorce as a result? If chances of marriage restoration are slim to none, what's the point of him taking this course?
I have been involved with Conquer and am trying to do my own healing work. My husband knows he needs to do his work and is considering the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course. However, he also expects us to do marital work together, i.e. solve problems, spend time together, go on dates, etc. How would Chris counsel the man on this? Would his recommendation be to do our individual work first? Is it recommended that separation would be helpful?

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In VIDEO #8 Chris answers the following questions.

What is Men of Peace?
Does the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course address pornography/sex addiction?
How do you define abuse?
Can I act as my husband's accountability partner, reviewing his Men of Peace workbook assignments?
What's the difference between Called to Peace Ministry's G5 groups for men and the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course?