The 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group is a structured, accountability-based coaching experience which will be co-facilitated by Dr. Chris Moles and Dr. Sandy Cruise. This coaching group is for men who have identified abusive patterns in themselves and are committed to taking responsibility for their behavior and walking the path of repentance.

Participation requires a willingness to be honest, to receive feedback, and to actively practice non-violent, respectful, and godly ways of relating—particularly within intimate and family relationships. This group is not therapy and not crisis intervention; it is a gospel-centered, coaching environment that emphasizes personal accountability, discipleship, and consistent participation. Applicants must be prepared to meet all attendance requirements, complete assigned work, and adhere to group agreements and program expectations throughout the duration of the group.

Over the course of twenty-nine (29) weeks, men will complete the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course, submit weekly reflection and application homework assignments, interact with other participants though weekly discussion prompts, and receive almost 50 hours of live coaching from qualified interventionists.

In addition to these components, participant spouses will have the option of receiving limited, non-case-management advocacy services throughout the duration of the coaching process.

We are no longer accepting applications for the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group.

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Breakdown

  • Twenty-Four Weeks of Two-Hour Live Group Coaching Sessions with Dr. Chris Moles and Dr. Sandy Cruise

  • Advocacy for Spouses (Optional)

    • We will provide limited, non-case-management advocacy services for spouses of men participating in the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group, throughout the duration of the coaching process.

Prospective Participants 

The 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group is intended for evangelical, confessing Christian men who personally desire to take responsibility for and repent of the abusive patterns they’ve identified in themselves, regardless of their current or future marital status.

If you are currently serving a sentence within the criminal justice system, under a protective order, or have engaged in physical violence, we'd encourage you to voluntarily admit yourself to a state-accredited Batterers Intervention and Prevention Program (BIPP). You can do so by contacting your county resources and/or your local domestic abuse agency or shelter. Chris Moles and Men of Peace will not participate in pre-trial diversions and are not intended to replace any court ordered interventions.

Interested individuals will be required to a) complete the forms referenced below and b) purchase the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course.

2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group Application (due 1/30/26 - linked here)

2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group Consent Form (due 2/13/26 - form will be provided upon acceptance)

What to Expect

  • An upfront, one-time coaching fee of $5,000 per participant will be due 2/13/26. 

    The Men of Peace Self-Paced Course is a separate required purchase. However, approved applicants will receive a 50% discounted purchase link to help offset the cost.

    All program fees are non-refundable. Fees are paid to reserve a participant’s place in the group and to cover administrative and facilitation costs. Removal or dismissal from the group for disciplinary, behavioral, or safety-related reasons does not entitle a participant to any refund, credit, or transfer of fees.

  • Participants should expect a significant weekly time commitment, including:

    • A two-hour live group coaching session

    • Independent coursework through the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course

    • Weekly written reflection and application assignments

    • Engagement with group discussion prompts

    Consistent attendance and timely completion of all assignments are required.

  • 2026 MOP Coaching Group participants will be required to purchase the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course, which will be assigned as pre-work throughout the duration of coaching. To offset the additional cost of this required resource, a 50% discounted purchase link will be provided to participants after their 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group application has been approved.

    The Men of Peace Self-Paced Course walks men through the three-fold Men of Peace process of Information, Transformation, and Reformation, educating and guiding men who are ready to take ownership of their abusive behaviors and surrender themselves fully to the Lord in true and lasting repentance. Once purchased, each course participant will have permanent access to all course materials.

  • Participants must have reliable internet access and a personal computer, tablet, or smartphone to properly navigate and stream course content, complete homework, and attend video coaching calls within Podia (our online course sharing site). 

    Homework may be completed electronically using Adobe Acrobat Reader. To do so, participants must have a basic understanding of Adobe Acrobat Reader and be able to download, edit, and upload PDFs throughout the duration of the coaching process. 

    While homework may be completed manually using printed PDF documents, participants are required to scan (not photograph) and upload all completed assignments in PDF format throughout the duration of the coaching process.

Advocate Services for Participant Spouses

Spouses connected to the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group are offered limited, non-case-management, non-therapeutic, advocacy support from a trained advocate. This support is designed to provide education, clarity, resourcing, and a safe point of contact at key moments throughout the coaching process.

Once participants have been accepted, submitted payment, purchased the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course, and completed the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group Consent Form, spouses will be notified and offered these advocacy services. A spouse’s participation in advocacy services is optional.

Confidentiality and Mandatory Reporting

The advocate will maintain strict confidentiality regarding all spouse and participant information, impact statements, case details, and internal matters related to the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group. Information will be shared internally only with authorized Men of Peace personnel as necessary for educational, safety, and programmatic purposes and in accordance with Men of Peace confidentiality and ethical guidelines.

Confidentiality may be limited by mandatory reporting laws and safety obligations. When necessary, the advocate will take appropriate action, consistent with applicable law and professional standards.

When feasible and appropriate, the advocate will inform the spouse of these limits to confidentiality and will coordinate with Men of Peace personnel regarding safety-related concerns.

No Legal Representation

The Advocate does not provide legal advice, legal counsel, or legal representation. Participation in advocacy services does not create an attorney-client relationship, nor should any information shared be construed as legal guidance.

Advocate services are offered in three distinct phases.

  • At the beginning of the coaching process, the advocate will meet individually with the spouse for a confidential, 90-minute intake Zoom interview. This conversation will provide space for the advocate to listen carefully to the spouse’s experience, help document the impact of harm, and provide an overview of the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching process. The advocate will offer relevant resources, which may include safety planning tools, referrals, and support options tailored to the spouse’s situation. After the intake, the spouse will receive a written summary of the intake conversation and the advocate will prepare an impact statement to share with the group facilitators.

  • Throughout the coaching group, the advocate will remain available in a limited support and resourcing role. 

    Spouses will be provided a way to report serious safety-related incidents if they occur (such as arrests, violence, or hospitalization). The advocate will monitor these reports in coordination with group facilitators and will offer appropriate advocacy resources (not investigation or intervention) when needed.

    Spouses will also be invited to attend three private educational webinars with Dr. Chris Moles and Dr. Sandy Cruise. These webinars will correspond with three main movements of the Men of Peace process:

    • Webinar #1 – Information

    • Webinar #2 – Transformation

    • Webinar #3 – Reformation

    Dates and times for these webinars will be shared in advance once finalized. Spouses who are unable to attend live will have access to recorded sessions.

  • At the conclusion of the coaching group, the advocate will meet again with the spouse for a 90-minute exit Zoom interview. This conversation will provide space to reflect on the spouse’s experience throughout the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching process, review any changes or ongoing concerns, and revisit relevant resources. After the exit interview, the spouse will receive a written summary of the exit conversation along with reminders of support options moving forward and the advocate will prepare an exit statement to share with the group facilitators.

Men of Peace - Coaching Group (2026 Calendar)

January 1-30

January 30

February 6

February 13

February 16 - March 9

March 10 (7-9pm ET)

March 17 (7-9pm ET)

March 24 (7-9pm ET)

March 31 (7-9pm ET)

April 7 (7-9pm ET)

April 14 (7-9pm ET)

April 21 (7-9pm ET)

April 28 (7-9pm ET)

May 5 (7-9pm ET)

May 12 (7-9pm ET)

May 19 (7-9pm ET)

May 26 (7-9pm ET)

June 2 (7-9pm ET)

June 9 (7-9pm ET)

June 16 (7-9pm ET)

June 23 (7-9pm ET)

June 30 (7-9pm ET)

July 7 (7-9pm ET)

July 14  (7-9pm ET)

July 21 (7-9pm ET)

July 28 (7-9pm ET)

August 4 (7-9pm ET)

August 11 (7-9pm ET)

August 18 (7-9pm ET)

August 19 - September 1

Application Window Open

Application Deadline

Application Responses Deadline

Coaching Payment, MOP SPC Purchase, and Consent Form Deadline

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Conclusion Weeks 1-2

Meet the Facilitators

Dr. Chris Moles

Dr. Chris Moles is an ordained minister with the Christian and Missionary Alliance and Senior Pastor of The Chapel (Eleanor, WV). Chris is a Certified Biblical Counselor, a Council Member of the Biblical Counseling Coalition, and a trained group facilitator in domestic violence intervention and prevention. Chris holds a B.A. in Bible from Cedarville College (Cedarville, OH), an M.A. in Biblical Counseling from Faith Bible Seminary (Lafayette, IN), and a D.R.E. from Cornerstone College and Seminary. Chris is the author of The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for Men Who Use Control and Violence in the Home, a contributor on the West Virginia Coalition against domestic violence state wide intervention curriculum, a contributor to Becoming a Church that Cares Well for the Abused, and the editor of Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope.

Dr. Sandy Cruise

Dr. Sandy Cruise holds her MA in Biblical Counseling from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and her Doctorate in Biblical Counseling with an emphasis on Domestic Abuse in the Church. She is a committed life-long learner and dedicated follower of Christ. Since 2020, Sandy has served as a counselor at Life Counseling Center Ministries where she meets with women and couples experiencing brokenness. She has experience working with people who are struggling with anxiety/depression, relational conflict, grief, parenting issues, divorce, singleness, OCD, domestic abuse, and spiritual struggles. She is a certified Prepare and Enrich marriage counselor and has been trained in Level 1 Gottman marriage counseling. 

Your Questions, Answered

  • The Men of Peace Coaching Group is a structured, accountability-based coaching experience for men who have identified abusive patterns in themselves and are committed to taking responsibility for their behavior and walking the path of repentance. The group is gospel-centered and emphasizes personal accountability, discipleship, and consistent participation.

  • The group will be co-facilitated by Dr. Chris Moles and Dr. Sandy Cruise, both qualified interventionists with extensive experience working with abusive men.

  • No. The Men of Peace Coaching Group will not provide case management to participants. We believe the greatest potential for an abusive man’s accountability lies in his choice to take responsibility for his repentance process and to proactively invite a variety of people (counselors, advocates, pastors, church leaders, law enforcement, etc.) to, together, act as a shepherding team. The more expansive and diverse the roles of shepherding team members, the more effective the accountability will be. 

    Though not a requirement for this coaching group, during the initial three weeks of guided, independent orientation work, participants will receive instruction and support for identifying and assembling an appropriate shepherding team.

    If a participant does not choose to invite outside accountability or establish a shepherding team, this may be an indicator that he is not yet ready or willing to take responsibility for and repent of the abusive patterns he’s identified in himself. 

  • This group is intended for evangelical, confessing Christian men who personally desire to take responsibility for abusive patterns they have identified in themselves, regardless of their current or future marital status.

  • Men who are currently:

    • Serving a criminal sentence

    • Under a protective or no-contact order

    • Engaged in ongoing physical violence

    are encouraged to voluntarily enroll in a state-accredited Batterers Intervention and Prevention Program (BIPP). Men of Peace does not replace court-ordered interventions and does not participate in pre-trial diversions.

  • While Men of Peace is not affiliated with DAIP, coaching will address all abuse tactics listed on the Duluth Model Power and Control Wheel (as it is the standard in domestic abuse intervention) along with the heart issues and theological motivations associated with them.

  • No. The Men of Peace Coaching Group is not therapy and not crisis intervention. Men who require clinical treatment, crisis services, or court-ordered intervention should seek those services separately.

  • The coaching group runs for twenty-nine (29) weeks and will be broken up into three (3) weeks of guided independent orientation work, twenty-four (24) weeks of live coaching sessions, and two (2) weeks guided conclusion work.

  • Participants should expect a significant weekly time commitment, including:

    • A two-hour live group coaching session

    • Independent coursework through the Men of Peace Self-Paced Course

    • Weekly written reflection and application assignments

    • Engagement with group discussion prompts

    Consistent attendance and timely completion of all assignments are required.

  • The coaching group requires a one-time, upfront fee of $5,000, due February 13, 2026.

  • No. The Men of Peace Self-Paced Course is a separate required purchase. However, approved applicants will receive a 50% discounted purchase link to help offset the cost.

  • No. All program fees are non-refundable. Fees reserve a participant’s place in the group and cover administrative and facilitation costs. Removal or dismissal from the group for disciplinary, behavioral, or safety-related reasons does not entitle a participant to a refund, credit, or transfer of fees.

  • Interested individuals must complete the 2026 Men of Peace Coaching Group Application (due 1/30/26).

  • Applicants will be notified by or before February 6, 2026 of the status of their application, which may include acceptance or referral to other appropriate resources.

  • Participants must have reliable internet access and a personal computer, tablet, or smartphone to properly navigate and stream course content, complete homework, and attend video coaching calls within Podia (our online course sharing site). 

    Homework may be completed electronically using Adobe Acrobat Reader. To do so, participants must have a basic understanding of Adobe Acrobat Reader and be able to download, edit, and upload PDFs throughout the duration of the coaching process. 

    While homework may be completed manually using printed PDF documents, participants are required to scan (not photograph) and upload all completed assignments in PDF format throughout the duration of the coaching process.

  • This program is an educational and guiding resource that can assist abusive men in taking ownership of their abusive behaviors and surrendering themselves fully to the Lord in true and lasting repentance. The results for each participant will span a wide spectrum of outcomes that depend entirely on his willingness to commit to the repentance process. We cannot guarantee or predict any such outcomes.

  • Participation requires consistent attendance and completion of all assigned work. Failure to meet program expectations may result in disciplinary action or removal from the group.

  • Yes. Spouses of participants will have the option to receive limited, non-case-management advocacy services throughout the duration of the coaching process. Participation in advocacy services is optional.